Soul-mate

The companionship for life alias the relationship between the couple is unique and very special. Some of us fall in love with someone, show our love towards them and eventually get married to them. Some of us get settled with arranged marriages either forcibly or voluntarily. On the day1, everything is different in the new household, even the guy to whom we entrusted ourselves!

But, this is a very special relationship where the bonding comes naturally. If he is not well, you don’t feel like eating and if he is late from work, you wait for him without sleeping! You call him everyday to enquire if he had his lunch, whether he has started back home, etc.. Though he gets annoyed sometimes because of the calls, he secretly enjoys them and if one day you do not call him, you get a call!! Many of us do value this relationship but this relationship is not just to be a couple in the social circle, to bring up children, taking care of parents, thereby losing the specialtiy as the days go by.

The initial years till a baby comes amidst is a valuable period, to know each other, to understand and love unconditionally and to trust each other. This period is fun filled with fights too! Sometimes, we argue, we hit each other, be in the other’s arms, leaning on other’s shoulders. Of course, fights are inevitable and the little pain after the fight shows the love we have for each other.

If we focus on good things, such as the love, the respect we have for each other, the special skills that one possesses, all these will build a bridge for a successful life ahead. If anger or frustration steps in, also welcomes in a guest called fight and arguments and life is not worth to live together!

Another special attribute of this relationship is transparency. Let her know what all you talk to with whom you call up! Its nothing wrong with her to be curious to know all this! After all, she is the one who is going to be with you as your extended hand till the end of life. Women are normally curious to know when it comes to their husband’s behavior. So, they would feel secured if you tell them all by yourself rather they knowing about you from a third person! They don’t want their husbands to be cheated, exploited, to have fun with other girls, etc..

Similarly, they cannot allow any body in the space between them and their spouses, even if that means half an hour of time! So, privacy plays a major role in a couple’s life! We cannot have everyone discussing about their future and kids in front of a gathering! No girl can digest that how much ever sweet that is!!

The husband is always the first priority for her and even her parents and siblings with whom she had spent her life, take a back seat! Its always ‘him’ that stands first to her. Anything she buys, she keeps him in mind! and slowly she forgets to go to her mom's place to spend sometime with them!

So, allow yourself to be pampered by her and occasionally you can also pamper her. Not all girls can be satisfied by the expensive gifts, some girls get satisfied by just your time and love!

Take a step forward when it comes to this special relationship and by nurturing it, it would give you wonderful results, like an obedient garden having a good care!